Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Q&A - An Intimate New England wedding


What do you think typically draws brides to intimate weddings at smaller venues?

It’s a wonderful way to share this special celebration surrounded by the love of your closest family and friends! One of the best things about having an intimate wedding is that it also allows you to a celebration that Fits Your Budget and Reflects your Personal Style. This allows for a real reflection of who you are as a couple and the ability to share what is most important to you.


Can you list the names of some small venues where you have planned weddings?

There are so many charming opportunities in NE. A few beautiful intimate locations that come to mind are the local Vineyards, Local State Park, and Inns, contact your favorite restaurant that you both enjoyed on your first date. Also a family members home or rental property on the coast line, is a great opportunity to hold your celebration and you can stay overnight!


Can you think of any specific characteristics about any of these venues - or having a small wedding in general - that brides need to be aware of? Any major benefits or pitfalls?

Be aware of a plan B if you choose a beach location, local garden or outdoor venue. I would suggest contacting a local tent company and reserving a rain only tent for the day, just in case of inclement weather….most times they can generally release the hold 48 prior to the event.

Stick to your guest list! You may be worried that you will offend some people or may have to invite them, but in the end this is your wedding. Plus, I'll tell you a secret - planning a small wedding really forces you to keep it that way because sometimes you simply run out of space, and so it is great to be able to say “I'm sorry we are keeping it really small”.

Does planning a small wedding involve less or more work on your end? Most people probably assume that small weddings are easier to plan; do you believe this to be the case? Do you have any examples of potential planning problems at small weddings that you were able to avert or smooth over?

Whether you prefer something large and extravagant or intimate and detailed, every wedding celebration is your biggest day! A small wedding doesn’t always mean a small budget or less detail. You should do what you’ve always dreamed of and what makes you both happy. Let's face it -weddings no matter how small or large can be chaotic in some ways. Hiring a professional to assist with creative ways to carry out your dream or to assist with the day of your event relieves the stress for you, your family and friends.


Is there anything that you've noticed that brides tend to forget or not be aware of when planning a small wedding?

If you choose an indoor facility…be aware of the maximum guest count at the venue you choose and make sure it will work with your guest list and vision so you can accommodate a sit down dinner or dance floor.


What planning tips would you offer to brides planning a small wedding at any intimate venue?

Prioritize what you want to invest in. Decide what the most important aspect is for you both to designate more of our budget there. Most importantly go with what you really want and try not to be discouraged by others…this is your day! Be Creative….having a wedding that is truly a reflection of you as a couple is a wonderful way to share your love and leave a lasting impression.

Embrace your day and know you can’t control everything…..relax and enjoy yourself and the love of those around you!